Friday, November 1, 2013

Book Review: The Burgess Boys

From Goodreads:

"Haunted by the freak accident that killed their father when they were children, Jim and Bob Burgess escaped from their Maine hometown of Shirley Falls for New York City as soon as they possibly could. Jim, a sleek, successful corporate lawyer, has belittled his bighearted brother their whole lives, and Bob, a Legal Aid attorney who idolizes Jim, has always taken it in stride. But their long-standing dynamic is upended when their sister, Susan—the Burgess sibling who stayed behind—urgently calls them home. Her lonely teenage son, Zach, has gotten himself into a world of trouble, and Susan desperately needs their help. And so the Burgess brothers return to the landscape of their childhood, where the long-buried tensions that have shaped and shadowed their relationship begin to surface in unexpected ways that will change them forever."

I have to admit, I was a little nervous about reading this story because, unlike so many others, Olive Kitteridge was not a book I enjoyed very much. Perhaps if I were to re-read that story with the same mindset as I did this one, I might like it better the second time around. Last year in my book club, we read a story that I couldn't get into; and I remarked that I didn't feel as though there was a purpose to the plot; and that I couldn't figure out exactly what the plot even was. One of my friends remarked that the story we were reading was character driven as opposed to plot driven. It wasn't about WHAT was happening in the story it was about to WHOM it was all happening. The Burgess Boys, to me, is written in the same way. The story is not about what is going to happen to Zach and his punishment for the crime he committed, nor is it even about the accident that occurred when the Burgess boys, Bob and Jim, were younger. However, those events are instrumental and necessary in developing these main characters in the story. The author presents and develops each character in such a manner that you find them desperate, despairing, modest, humorous, and loving...in other words, real. She gives each character a depth of humanity that you may not like and may even find discouraging and reprehensible; but  is nevertheless what makes them appealing to read about. They are characters you want to hate, they are are characters you want to understand, and they are characters you can't help but hope might get a happy ending. These are characters that allow us to see and reflect on our own lives with all the triumphs, tragedies and mistakes that come along with this journey we are all on. I think we all have either a little bit of Bob, Jim or Susan in us. The peripheral characters of Mrs. Drinkwater and Abidkarim and Margaret are also woven very well into the story as well to become necessary members of the canvas.
Finally, it isn't as though there's no plot or series of events that takes place in the book. Connecting the story with the Somali culture and community was powerful and educational.

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Joy and Peace: Christmas Mojo

Hi Everyone!

Well, I guess it's about that time...time to get moving on those Christmas cards. This is the first one I've done this year and I used this week's Mojo Monday sketch for inspiration. It came together quickly, which I was thankful for since I am, as always, super busy and on the go these days. I could definitely see myself using this sketch for more holiday cards.
I used Verve Stamps "Bright Spirits" for my card and patterned papers from My Mind's Eye 6x6 "Merry Days of Christmas" paper pad. I sponged the edges of the center strip and scalloped circles with Aged Mahogany and Fired Brick Distress inks. Finally, some faux white stitching and gold stickles for accents finished this holiday card.
Thanks so much for stopping by. I know I'm not the best blogger; but rest assured, I'm always grateful when you visit! Until next time...

Book Review: The Secret Daughter

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From Goodreads:

"On the eve of the monsoons, in a remote Indian village, Kavita gives birth to a baby girl. But in a culture that favors sons, the only way for Kavita to save her newborn daughter's life is to give her away. It is a decision that will haunt her and her husband for the rest of their lives, even after the arrival of their cherished son.
Halfway around the globe, Somer, an American doctor, decides to adopt a child after making the wrenching discovery that she will never have one of her own. When she and her husband, Krishnan, see a photo of the baby with the gold-flecked eyes from a Mumbai orphanage, they are overwhelmed with emotion. Somer knows life will change with the adoption but is convinced that the love they already feel will overcome all obstacles.
Interweaving the stories of Kavita, Somer, and the child that binds both of their destinies, Secret Daughter poignantly explores the emotional terrain of motherhood, loss, identity, and love, as witnessed through the lives of two families—one Indian, one American—and the child that indelibly connects them"

The Secret Daughter is a beautifully written, uplifting and heartbreaking love story about the unconditional love between mothers and daughters. It is a testimony to the bonds shared by those born to us and to those who, through circumstance and fortune, come into our lives. Motherhood presents such a wide variety of emotions and it is as wild and unpredictable as it is beautiful and overwhelming. As I read this story, I found myself incredibly grateful that I was never forced to give up my own daughter, or hide her away, or never tell anyone about her the way Kavita had to give up Asha. I simply couldn't imagine the pain and the heartache that would associated with that. I had great admiration and respect for Kavita to make the decision to take Usha to the orphanage, especially when the alternative meant possible death.
There were many aspects to this story that I found both intriguing and inspiring. I particularly liked the way Asha's adopted family was connected with her Indian heritage through Krishnan. I felt as though it was a logical and clear way to bring the two worlds together. I also admired the struggles that Somer and Asha went through that still had the usual "mother and teen daughter" angst; but also showcased their fundamental differences in that they were not biologically related. I think at one point Somer became painfully aware of this, as did Asha, causing them to pull apart. At one point, it was unclear as to whether or not this would be a breaking point of sorts in their relationship or if it could just learn to be accepted. To me, the story portrayed Somer and Asha as two pieces in the same puzzle...just not two pieces connected together. Still, I think they come to understand that they needed each other to complete one another's story.
The ending was unexpected; and at first somewhat baffling. However, in hindsight, it was really the only way it could have ended. I think that if it had ended in a predictable fashion, the story would not have had the same impact. In their own way, each character found their happy ending, or at least a version of it.

Friday, October 18, 2013

Happy Halloween!

Good Morning Everyone!

I am so excited to be the guest designer this week for ABC Challenges. They graciously declared my card from this challenge a couple of weeks ago their winner for the week. I was so excited; and beyond delighted to create a card for their Halloween challenge this week. Now, I will be the first to admit that Halloween just isn't really my favorite holiday. It's expensive and stressful with costume buying and candy giving and buying and buying...anyhow, I digress! This is probably the only Halloween card I will make; but I had a lot of fun making it! I used some pattern papers and coordinating stamps from Martha Stewart. I added some glossy accents to the three images that is hard to see in the picture; but it does look cool in real life! I want to thank Patty and all the members at ABC Challenges for giving me this opportunity! If you are new to my blog, I hope you look around and find some inspiration and maybe visit again. Have a great weekend everyone!